I have been at it for a while now and texting is essential to part of the game. Texting after a meeting a chick is a common occurance but knowing what to say and when to say could be crucial of increasing your odds of success. After several failures i finally hit success. Was it easy? Hell no.. but I did it. I cracked the code and I want to share it with you in hopes that you will not make the same mistakes I did and that you will press forward. Its really easy to get caught up in the text game but play your cards right and you will get an Ace every time. I know I know enough of the rambling so here it is my masterpiece what I have used to help me and now what you will use to meet and fun with hopefully tons of beautiful women.
The Rules of Texting.
1. Do you like pop up adds? If you answered yes please leave this site now and go register to win some "free stuff" If you answered no, well let me continue. Don't be a pop up add. What I mean is don't be the guy that constantly texts a chick until she loses her mind. There is a three text rule. Don't send more than three texts to a female without getting a response. If you do you this automatically lose value because you start to look needy. Who wants to hang out with a clingy person?
2. Be busy.. Your an Alpha you have lots of things going on in your life. If you don't find something to do there are lots of things you can discover about your self by staying busy. You don't want to be always available and you don't want to come off as a guy that has nothing going for him. So when she texts you don't alway immediatley text back. You may check your phone and even think about what to say but give it some time. Women can be very curious and if your not showing her tons of attention (exspecially if she is a beautiful girl) she may want to know why, thus increasing your chances of getting together. Women like mystery and men that have lives beyond the telephone and texting. Show her that you are a man. Now and then you may get the text that says you are flakey and sketchy because you do not text her back immediatley. That my friend is a test and by no means appologize for it. Let her know you are busy and you have alot going on.
3. Although it may work from time to time I highly disencourage asking a girl out over text. She may ask you out over text (because of the great tips Im giving you) but don't you dare ask her out that is unless you have A.already met with her before or B. Had sex with her before. A first "date' if thats what you call it over text can be a recipe for disaster. There are some things you do not do over text and this is it. Your chances of meeting up will be vastly improved if you have the cahounas to pick up the phone and call her. Voice recognition improves comfort instead of a computer generated image. I mean really guys have you ever seen a magazine that has pay to text message girls in the back of it (im sure they probably have this now) or have you seen the ones that you pay to call. I wonder which was does better? Well of course its the one that uses the voice. Human language is natural a computer image is not. You learn to cry an laugh as a baby. Although there are emoticans this is something you cannot display over the phone. (Not that I would ever recommend crying)
3.Flirt- Yes flirt it is ok to do this but WARNING do not and I mean do not come off to strong. I have tried my luck with this and there are somethings that you just don't send it a text. For example i found this online; I wish I was a teddy bear, that lay upon your bed, so everytime you cuddled it, you cuddled me instead. Unless you have specifically talked about teddy bears and cuddling then you just messed your chances up of seeing this girl. You want to come off as flirty but pushy not too pushy but just enough where she keeps coming back. Its almost like fishing you throw your line in the water and jerk your lure as your reeling in. You don't want to jerk to much because nothing will be able to grab the bait but if you jerk it enough well it looks natural and before you know it the fish will be in the kitchen. Push-Pull Push-Pull Push-Pull
4. Be careful- text messages do not allow you to display emotions properly so depending on the language you use you could convey yourself in way not intended. You don't want to come off as to big of a jerk but never fail to call her BS. Do it in a creative way but subtle. You don't want to come off as a guy that wears his emotions on his sleeve. Your a man and you don't put up with disrespect.
5. Short and sweet- once sung in a country song you say it best when you say nothing at all. So keep it short convey mystery don't YOU say it all Give her a reason for meeting the real deal in person. Don't give a bio if you can prevent it and dont give away to much. All she needs to know is wow this is a cool guy and someone that I would want to hang out with. Now its ok to answer questions but don't go over board with it. What's your favorite food? Steak. Yours? Thats simple your not showing to much interest but enough to keep the conversation going which brings us to the next rule.
6. Keep the conversation flowing- Don't ask questions that can be answered readily, quickly, and with one response. The previous rule stated short and sweet this is true but you can use a follow up. Her; What's your favorite food. You; Steak. Yours? Her; Shrimp? You; Oh, so your a sea food lover should have known. Does that run in your family?
7. Keep it interesting- Try not to repeat things you have already said (unless you have met in person) You are an interesting guy and you have alot going on for yourself.
8. You and I factor; When asking for something try to use the word "you" more than "I." This is a technique I learned is business school. People naturally like it when other people inquire about them. If you use "I" follow it up with a "you" match the count of each time you use them. If you use 5 "I's" match that with "5" yous.
Well if you paid attention maybe you will learn something. Play your cards right and you will end up with a full house. Literally a full house! Just try not to make them all show up at once. If you have any questions please feel free to ask. I know this game can be very tricky but there is alot of good info. out there. Good game.
